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Southeast Asia or Southeastern Asia is a subregion of Asia, consisting of the regions that are geographically south of China, east of the Indian subcontinent and north-west of Australia. Southeast Asia is bordered to the north by East Asia, to the west by South Asia and the Bay of Bengal, to the east by Oceania and the Pacific Ocean, and to the south by Australia and the Indian Ocean.

Southeast Asia Top 10 Overview:

Chance of picking up girls: 2-5 / 5

Picking up at daytime: 1-4 / 5

Picking up at nighttime: 3-5 / 5

Looks of girls: 2-5 / 5

Attitude of girls: 3-5 / 5

Nightlife in general: 2-5 / 5

Locals' English level: 1-5 / 5

Transportation: 1-4 / 5

Budget per day: US$15 - $1000

Accommodation: US$4 - $600

Southeast Asian Girls

Southeast Asian girls are very similar to Asian girls in terms of how rich they are countries and even in terms of how they look. They have slender bodies and petite frames.The prettiest girls are from Singapore,Thailand, Malaysia and Brunei.

Thai beauties in traditional costumes
RatingLooks Looks of girls: 2-5 / 5

Southeast Asian girls have pretty similar features to each other and if they are stereotyped on the basis of their looks then you can describe them as being slim, petite and beautiful.

Singapore Airlines flight attendants
RatingAttitude Attitude of girls: 3-5/ 5

Usually these girls are very friendly but at the same time it depends on the country you are visiting. For example girls from Malaysia tend to be a little Conservative since it is a Muslim country. On the other hand girls from Thailand Vietnam or even Singapore will come across as friendlier.

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How to Pick Up Girls

When it comes to hooking up with the girls here, it is very important to be presentable, properly groomed and well-dressed to get the best results here. A lot of the girls here will judge you based on your appearance and image which plays an important role in determining how attractive you are here.

Lastly, having a curiosity for the local language and culture is a good idea when it comes to hooking up with the girls here. Most of the girls here and the general population, are very proud of their culture and you’re more likely to get better results if you provide the girl with something she can talk about all day!

RatingPickup Chance of picking up: 2-5 / 5

Chance of picking up vary from country to country. Thailand is where gaming will be the easiest and Malaysia or even in Brunei gaming will be the most difficult.

Tips for Daytime

Your game ban will differ from country to country because every country has its own culture but one thing to keep in mind is that you cannot be too direct with girls in the daytime due to the fact due to cultural norms and the way society works in this region. The best way is to be subtle and approach girls by asking a query and be friendly. Do not come off too strong.

RatingDaytime Chance of picking up at daytime: 1-4 / 5

Best Places to Meet Girls

  • Shopping malls
Senayan City
  • Beaches
Beach in Phuket, Thailand
  • Parks
Tasek Merimbun Heritage Park in Brunei
  • Near Universities
Technical University of Malaysia Melaka
  • The Streets
Street in Kuala Lumpur
  • Waterfalls
Tad Hang waterfalls at sunset, Laos
  • Markets
Binh Tay Market, Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam
  • Historical Places
Royal Palace, Phnom Penh, Combodia

Tips for Nighttime

Do you think the next time you can game with more ease. The girls are out to have fun. The best way to pick up girls is to hit the most happening nightclubs and bars.

RatingNighttime Chance of hooking up at nighttime: 3-5 / 5

Best Places to Meet Girls

  • Nightclubs
  • Lounges
  • Pubs and bars
  • Afterhour nightclubs (till early in the morning)
  • Afterhour fast food joints
  • Home parties
  • Student party nights
  • Special Events
RatingLooks Nightlife in general: 2-5 / 5

The nightlife in this region is a unique and interesting experience. You would never run out of where to go to at such times. These places always brim with the beautiful women of the country. The rating justifies just how exciting nightlife is in this region.

The Marina Bay Sands and Singapore Flyer

Mature Ladies and Cougars

Finding mature ladies and cougars will be very hard in this region due to the fact that girls are married off early and Asians are very conservative when it comes to the this.


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A tiny but rich sultanate in Borneo with an oil based economy, which has not yet made significant efforts to attract tourists
Home of the ancient city of Angkor and other remains of the once-powerful Khmer empire, is still recovering from decades of war but has good infrastructure in several places
East Timor
One of the world's newest states, a former Portuguese colony on the eastern half of the island of Timor, boasts excellent diving and an unique culture in the region
The world's largest archipelago nation with over 16,000 islands, spanning three time zones, and the largest Muslim-majority country in the world, but also nominally secular and deeply influenced by Hindu and Buddhist culture
The only landlocked country in the region and the most sparsely populated, mainly Buddhist Laos has stunning natural scenery and charming laid-back towns
Multicultural country (including Muslim Malays, mainly Buddhist Chinese, mainly Hindu Indians, and many Orang Asli aboriginal people, especially in Borneo) that ranges from skyscrapers in Kuala Lumpur to jungle-dwelling tribes in Borneo
Myanmar (Burma)
Ancient country with staggering ethnical diversity, whose history includes both an indigenous empire and being part of the British Empire, now emerging from isolation under a strict military junta and opening up to tourism
A unique fusion of the Asian traditions of non-confrontation and respect for elders combined with Spanish ideas of machismo, romance and sophistication (plus modern Americanization), the largest Christian nation in the region, and second largest archipelago with 7,641 islands – most with beautiful tropical beaches, warmth and friendly smiles
Prosperous, clean and orderly island city-state, with a Chinese majority but with strong Malay and Indian communities, the main business and financial hub of the region
Rich culture and cuisine with frenetic cities, chilled-out beaches, and remains of Buddhist kingdoms, making it a very popular destination with visitors returning time and again
Firmly marching down the road to capitalism as one of the world's fastest growing economies, Vietnam has a blend of Southeast Asian and Chinese values and culture, and a huge diversity of both natural and cultural attractions

Disputed territories in the region are:

  • Paracel Islands – administered by China but also claimed by Vietnam, not visitable by foreign tourists
  • Spratly Islands – a bunch of mostly uninhabited islands and reefs subject to a dizzying mess of territorial disputes with islands controlled by several different countries, but the only destination of note is the dive resort Layang Layang.

Aside from East Timor, the other ten nations listed above are members of ASEAN, the Association of Southeast Asian Nations.

Hainan (part of China) and Taiwan have similar nature and cultural heritage to Southeast Asia.


  • Bangkok — Thailand's bustling, cosmopolitan capital with nightlife and fervour
  • Ho Chi Minh City (formerly Saigon) — The bustling metropolis that has become Vietnam's largest city and main economic centre
  • Jakarta — the largest metropolitan city in southeast Asia, and beautiful life in the evening
  • Kuala Lumpur — grown from a small sleepy Chinese tin-mining village to a bustling metropolis
  • Luang Prabang — a UNESCO World Heritage City known for its numerous temples, colonial-era architecture and vibrant night market
  • Manila — a crowded, historic, bustling city known for its unique blend of cultures and flavors, with many places to see and experience
  • Phnom Penh — a city striving to retain the name of "The Pearl of Asia", as it was known before 1970
  • Singapore — modern, affluent city with a medley of Chinese, Indian and Malay influences
  • Yangon (formerly Rangoon) — the commercial capital of Myanmar, known for its pagodas and colonial architecture


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Top Dating Tips

There are many ways through which you can impress girls from this region. The best way is to dress up nicely, sure your wealth and be interested in what they have to say. Always be respectful specially towards their religion and their culture.

Relationships and Love

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Online Dating

  • Tinder: The app that made its debut in the year in 2012, has been widely popularised by the younger generation. They have taken a liking to it and at present people from different backgrounds, cultures, and ethnicities are hooked to it. Much like the other countries, it is popular in, Tinder is immensely famous in the country of Thailand as well. It is the first choice for western tourists and a must use for those wanting to get laid as soon as possible.
  • Bumble: The app was recently developed and has a more feminist approach as it reverses the traditional concept of men messaging women first upon matching. Instead, when one uses Bumble, the women message the men first, post this the men have 24 hours to reply. If they fail to do so, the system will automatically un-match the duo.

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What Kind of Guys Have the Best Chances

It can be a bit hard to say what kind of guys will have the best chances when it comes to hooking up with girls in the prefecture. This is due to the fact that there is a wide variety when it comes to the girls here and some of them prefer one type of guys while others prefer different kinds of guys.

Overall, guys who dress well and have a good image will have the best chances when it comes to hooking up with the girls here. Most of the girls here usually care about your image a lot and expect guys to have a good image in order to consider hooking up with them.

Risks while Gaming

There are not many risks involved well gaming in this region however you have to exercise extra precaution in some countries for example Thailand where scam artist can easily con you and prostitutes are readily available. Malaysia can also be a little bit tricky due to the fact that it is a Muslim country and if you approach a local Muslim they might take offence and report you. The same is the case with Brunei.

How to Get Laid as Soon as Possible

Online dating is your key to getting laid as soon as possible. Other than that visit the right places which include nightclubs, bars etc where you will find the right kind of girls who are open to the idea of hooking up and casual sex. Befriending university students will also help.

Gold Diggers and Sugar Babies

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Swinging and Naturism

Even though public nudity is not allowed in this region there are some private resorts and beaches where this is allowed.


  • Red River’s Middle bank

Thailand - only allowed in private resorts otherwise illegal.

  • Leela beach


  • Dadonghai beach
A girl sunbathing in Thailand

Costs of Living

CostsDay Single traveler’s budget per day: US$15 - $1000

Budget of a single traveler can be anything between $15-$1000.

CostsAccommodation Accommodation per night: US$4 - $600

Cheapest accommodation prices can go as low as $4 in Philippines, and as high as $600 in a place like Singapore.

CostsBeerBottle Beer in a grocery shop: US$0.26 - $5

In some cities you can find beer for just $0.26 but some places offer beer for even $5.

CostsBeerBar Beer in a bar or restaurant: US$1 - $7

Prices can vary from $1-$7.

CostsMeal Meal in a restaurant: US$2 - $300

Some places you can get food as cheap as $2 and in some places you might have to spend $100 or even more.


Some hotels in Southeast Asia have a really ethnic decor and an oriental vibe. There is Airbnb available as well. Asian hotels are the cheapest compared to everywhere else in the world.

How to Get There and Move Around

By air: The Changi International Airport in Singapore is the busiest airport in this region followed by the Jakarta International Airport in Malaysia. Almost all major cities have their own airports with the exception of a few.

Changi International Airport

By bus: The bus system of Singapore and Malaysia is the most advanced out of all other countries in this region. The buses are generally a very affordable and easy way of travelling.

Local bus in Singapore

By car: Taxis are easily available and can be pretty cheap as well however taxi driver in Thailand, Malaysia and Singapore are known to con tourists.

By train: The train system is pretty excellent in this region.

Monorail train in Malaysia

By boat:

There are some great boat routes in Asia.

The Inle Lake in Myanmar is known for its scenic views during boat rides

Visas: You can check the visa policy of the country you are planning to visit as they vary.

Digital Nomads and Remote Work

While Singapore and Malaysia are the best countries amongst all other countries in this region for a digital nomad, you will still face problems like a language barrier and infrastructure related issues.

Internet and Mobile Operators

  • Maxis
  • Celcom
  • Digi

Gambling and Casinos

Singapore, Malaysia and Philippines have the best casinos in this region.

Weed and Drugs

All types of drugs are illegal and penalties can be quite strict.

Health, Fitness, Gyms and Massage

Southeast Asia is known for the various types of massages and muscle relaxation therapies that one can get here. These are extremely unique and provide immediate relief and comfort.

Classical Thai Massage

STDs and HIV

STD's are very common in Southeast Asia, Gonorrhea being the most common. You should be very careful and always practice safe sex. Carry condoms with you and if you suspect that you have caught anything, get yourself tested as soon as possible.

Stay Safe

Generally speaking the traveller trail in Southeast Asia is perfectly safe, but there are low-level insurgencies in the remote areas of Indonesia, Myanmar, the Philippines, Thailand, and East Timor.

Violent crime is rare in Southeast Asia, but tourists have been attacked in beach resorts in a few isolated but well publicised cases.

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