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Mexico dating guide advises how to pick up Mexican girls and how to hookup with local women in Mexico. Travel, enjoy and have fun with hot single girls and you might even meet the love of your life. Read more on how to date Mexican women, where to find sex and how to get laid in Mexico, North America.

Skyline of Mexico City

Officially called the United Mexican States, Mexico is the 13th largest country in the world. With over 129 million people, it’s the most populous Spanish-speaking country and the 10th largest in population. With an extensive coastline of more than 10,000km, Mexico offers pleasant weather, unique food, and superb architecture. With a flourishing tourist industry, Mexico is ranked as the 7th major destination for foreign visitors.    

Mexico Top 10 Overview:

Chance of picking up girls: 4 / 5

Picking up at daytime: 3.5 / 5

Picking up at nighttime: 4.5 / 5

Looks of girls: 4 / 5

Attitude of girls: 1 / 5

Nightlife in general: 4.5 / 5

Locals' English level: 3 / 5

Transportation: 3.5 / 5

Budget per day: US$30 - $50

Accommodation: US$10 - $30

Mexican Girls

Mexican girls are typical Latinas, they are friendly, outgoing, fiery, compassionate, and always in the mood for some good fun. It’s hard to find a Mexican girl who is not attractive, and the hotter they are, the more you will have to sweat to impress her. They are strong and opinionated. Mexican girls like to be free and independent but at the same time do not shy away from their family duties. They are also very expressive and sentimental.

A Mexican woman knows the importance of the family and has a sense of maternal obligation due to the rich culture of the Mexican people. They try to keep things in check and maintain a good balance between their personal and professional life. Most girls are well learned and have jobs, so material wealth is not that important for them. They like men who are strong and well educated. The dressing sense of Mexican girls is impeccable, and it’s a task to impress a Latina. They might be friendly and fiery, but impressing a Mexican girl is a real deal. One thing you must know is that girls that live in developed and modern cities are more outgoing rather than girls from conservative cities who are restricted due to the structure of society and its beliefs.

RatingLooks Looks of girls: 4 / 5

Mexican girls are sexy and do not hesitate to show off their charm. It will be hard for you to get your eyes of girls as all of them look beautiful and sexy. Famous celebrities like Salma Hayek and Selena Gomez are just examples to paint a pretty picture for you.

RatingAttitude Attitude of girls: 1 / 5

Mexicans are friendly and genuine people. The society, in general, is very open and accepting, and so are the girls. Mexican girls love attention and love being approached by strangers. They are outspoken and also display emotions without worrying. It’s usual for them to kiss someone on the cheek as a greeting gesture and that tells us how liberal they are.  

How to Pick Up Girls

Mexico is a vast country, and like all other major countries, it also has modern cites and economically and socially under-developed cities. You will have the best chance if you stay in and around the major cities where the chances are good. The options are unlimited in Mexico if you know the local language i.e., Spanish. Another major thing is the way you dress. Mexican girls have a perfect sense of dressing and like their men to be dressed equally well. If you have good taste in clothes, your chances increase automatically. Girls like men who are social and respect others, especially women. Try talking to men as well as women to get into their friend circle. One thing you must try to stay away from is to get into political or controversial topics. If you are asked to express your opinion, state what you feel like and let them know that it's just an outsider’s perspective and you barely know what's happening here. Always keep in mind that Mexican girls love to be wooed, so hang on and keep trying. The constant pursual is a must when you are in Mexico, but keep in mind to not push it too much as the girls won’t think twice to shut you down. Night game, as well as the day game, is pretty strong here and for an average looking guy, the chances are bright, and if you are above average, then it’s all about your management skills. Best cities to increase your chances are:

  • Mexico City
  • Guadalajara
  • Monterrey
  • Morelia
  • Guanajuato
RatingPickup Chance of picking up: 4 / 5

The chances to pick up girls are unlimited. The major Mexican cities have amazing night scenes and the days are mostly spent on the beaches and roaming around the city. If you are well dressed and can speak basic Spanish, you are in for some fun. The girls in Mexico are friendly and will lead you on if they find you attractive. Hookups and one night stands are normal for the girls in the city. However, the dating game is totally different and almost non-existent in the less developed towns.  

Tips for Daytime

Daytime in Mexico is mostly shopping and spending time in cafes or visiting tourist sites. However, women stay approachable even during the day in Mexico. The working ladies might be occupied during the day, but there’s plenty of fish in the ocean for you to try. If the weather is nice, you can try cafes and street shopping venues or visit a mall. Mexican girls are pretty receptive to guys approaching them but if they don’t seem comfortable with you, do not press the issue. Being confident and knowing your limits is the best.

If you know your game and know whom to target, then it won’t take you long to land your first date. If you see a girl sitting alone in a cafe, don’t be hesitant and give it a shot. Approaching girls on the streets is not always a good idea as the streets are not that safe in Mexico due to the drug mafias and gangs, but more on that later. 

RatingDaytime Chance of picking up at daytime: 3.5 / 5

A day game is all about having a chat at first; once you have got the attention, then it’s the usual. Girls in Mexico do not hesitate to talk to guys, especially if you are hot and know Spanish. Opportunities are endless, and if you are good at the game, you won’t be disappointed by the attention you will get. Just keep in mind not to push too soon and not to be a creep. 

Best Places to Meet Girls

Days in Mexico are spent shopping or having a good time with friends and family. The working majority is mostly in offices, but there’s a good amount of girls who can be found in malls, shopping streets, and cafes. Streets are still not a great option to approach a girl as they feel less safe on the streets. Malls and cafes are great conversation starters as the girls feel safer there. It’s a bonus if you have local guys or girls with you as it helps in socializing and increases your chances. Here are some of the best malls and shopping streets you can approach girls and work out the day game: 

  • Centro Commercial mall - Mexico City 
  • Reforma mall - Mexico City 
  • Forum Tlaquepaque - Guadalajara
  • Andares Centro Commercial - Guadalajara
  • Galerias Monterrey - Monterrey
  • El Zocalo - Monterrey
  • Superama - Morelia
  • Altozano - Morelia

Tips for Nighttime

Mexico is filled with clubs, bars, lounges, and just about anything to satisfy your interests. It’s a great place with great nightlife and an equally amazing crowd. There’s a lot of mingling that happens during the night, and it should not be difficult for you to find someone and have your moment. The nightlife pretty much resembles hoe nightlife in American cities, especially in Mexico City, Monterrey, and other modern cities. To increase your chances during the night, start from the very basic, your look.

Mexican girls like to dress up and appreciate if a guy puts in the effort to look good. If you look good, it will be easier to approach women. The other thing that matters is Spanish; if you can even get a hold of the common phrases to start a conversation, you will have a real shot. The bars and clubs are well marked in terms of the crowd that visits them so some nightlife venues will be more conservative than others. One thing to keep in mind is that Mexican girls are independent and seek similar men. They also don’t mind spending $40 - $60 every night they are out, so if you are after the top tire, do not shy away from spending a few dollars as it will only increase your likeability. 

RatingNighttime Chance of hooking up at nighttime: 4 / 5

The chances are that if you are average looking and you play the game right, you won’t be going back alone after night. The western culture has influenced the major cities, so hookups and one night stands are normal here. But the competition also increases during the nighttime especially for the hotter girls, so be quick to grab an opportunity, and make the best of the opportunity.  

Best Nightclubs to Meet Girls

The major cities like Mexico City and Monterrey are filled with nightclubs. If you are visiting a less popular city, you may find nightclubs there but the crowd there would be a lot conservative than what you will find in the urban and major cities. Usually, there are no dress codes, but since the girls expect guys to dress up, putting on something good is never a bad option. Here are some of the best clubs in Mexico to make the best of your nighttime:  

  • The City Nightclub Cancun - Cancún, Quintana Roo
  • SENS - Mexico City
  • Coco Bongo - Cancún
  • Patrick Miller - Mexico City
  • Smith Nightclub - Monterrey
  • Galaxxxies Night Club - Morelia
RatingLooks Nightlife in general: 4.5 / 5

Nightlife in Mexico is booming. The western influences it has had over the years has overtaken the culture, and the women are free from societal pressure. The girls are very approachable, and sex on the first date is common in major cities'Bold text'

Mature Ladies and Cougars

Online websites are your best bet if you have a liking towards older women. You may also find them more in bars, as opposed to nightclubs.

Regions

Mexico regions
Baja California (Baja California, Baja California Sur)
The western peninsula, which borders the U.S. state of California
Northern Mexico (Chihuahua, Coahuila, Durango, Nuevo León, Sinaloa, Sonora, Tamaulipas)
Includes the expansive deserts and mountains of the border states; mostly ignored by tourists, this is "Unknown Mexico"
The Bajio (Aguascalientes, Guanajuato, Zacatecas, San Luis Potosi, Querétaro)
Historic states in a traditional silver-mining region
Central Mexico (Hidalgo, Mexico City, Mexico State, Morelos, Puebla, Tlaxcala, Veracruz)
Center, surrounding the capital city
Pacific Coast (Chiapas, Colima, Guerrero, Jalisco, Michoacan, Nayarit, Oaxaca)
Tropical beaches on Mexico's southern coast
Yucatan Peninsula (Campeche, Quintana Roo, Tabasco, Yucatán)
Jungle and impressive Mayan archaeological sites, along with the Caribbean coast

Cities

  • Acapulco - A sophisticated urban beach setting known for its top-notch nightlife, elegant dining, and nightmarish traffic. Many of the older (pre-1990s) concrete structures have suffered tropical decay.
  • Cabo San Lucas - A resort city on the southern tip of Mexico’s Baja California peninsula, is known for its beaches, water-based activities and nightlife.
  • Cancun - One of the worlds most popular and famous beaches, known for its clear Caribbean waters, its lively party atmosphere, and its wealth of recreational facilities. During Spring Break it is noted for drinking, sunburns, and debauchery.
  • Guadalajara - A traditional city, capital of Jalisco state, and the home of mariachi music and tequila. Guadalajara is blessed with perpetual spring weather, and its colonial downtown is graceful and sophisticated.
  • Mazatlan - Lively Pacific coast town, Mazatlan is a shipping port, a transportation hub with ferries to Baja California, and a beach resort destination with miles of sandy shore. It is a popular Spring Break destination due to its variety of affordable lodging options. Mazatlan's Carnival is the oldest in Mexico and one of the largest in the world.
  • Mexico City - Capital of the Republic, one of the three largest cities in the world, and a sophisticated urban hub with a 700-year history. In Mexico City, you will find everything from parks, Aztec ruins, colonial architecture, museums, to nightlife and shopping.
  • Monterrey - A large modern city that is the commercial and industrial hub of Northern Mexico. Monterrey enjoys a dry, mountainous setting and is known for its high-quality educational and transportation infrastructure.
  • Playa del Carmen - A popular tourist destination. Cancun's "little sister."
  • Puerto Vallarta - A resort town on Mexico’s Pacific coast, known for its beaches, water sports and robust nightlife scene.
  • San Luis Potosi - Located in central Mexico, a colonial city that was once an important silver producer, but today, relies on manufacturing for its economic base.
  • Taxco - In central Mexico west of Cuernavaca, this nice steep mountain town was once a major silver producer, and now has a strong place in the trade of decorative silver, from cheap fittings to the most elegant jewelry and elaborate castings.
  • Tijuana - Mexico's busiest border crossing for pedestrians and private vehicles, and a long-time bargain Mecca for southern Californians due to its proximity with San Diego.

Dating

When visiting Mexico, dating can be a fun and interesting experience. AdultFriendFinder.com, lets you meet local members in Mexico and get to know them on a personal basis before you arrive. It just takes a few minutes, you simply create an account, upload a few images and tell a little about yourself. Since time in your destination may be limited, get to know each other’s desires beforehand so when you do meet, you can skip the awkward introductions and start having some real fun.

Top Dating Tips

Impressing a girl on the first date starts by making an impression. Dress well and have confidence in your approach. The local guys don't like to dress up at all, so you will have an advantage over them. Another major thing or rather the most important thing is to choose the cities you will be traveling to in Mexico wisely. If you want to increase your chances, stick to major cities like Mexico City or else you will find it difficult to impress a conservative girl belonging to a smaller town. Don’t be too serious and try not to be mysterious with Mexican girls. The like to keep it straight and simple.

Mexican girls love a bold and financially independent man. They wouldn’t make you pay for their shopping but paying the restaurant bill and offering drinks are courtesies they like to enjoy. Try and stay away from political conversations, especially in the initial phase. Last but not least is not to be aggressive in your approach and to understand the signs the woman is trying to give.  

Online Dating

Online dating is very prevalent in Mexico and almost everyone is on it. It’s a great trick to get on the dating apps before you reach Mexico and start your conversations and not waste any time once you are in Mexico. You can find a sex worker on the popular dating apps as well as selected few apps meant only for sex workers. There are a variety of apps that are active and used by girls and boys alike but here are a few selected ones that will provide you more chances of finding a date:

  • MexicanCupid - One of the most trusted Mexican dating sites with over 700,000 members.
  • Tinder: Tinder is as popular in Mexico as in any other major country. It’s very popular amongst the youth and has the highest chances of getting you a date in a very small time. 
  • Badoo: Badoo is another dating app that is becoming popular in Mexico. It offers a feature where you see people close to you with similar interests and lets you chat with them once the match is made.   
  • Chispa - Chispa is a relatively new dating app which is getting popular as it has Spanish as well as an English interface. It's based on the same features as Tinder. 

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What Kind of Guys Have the Best Chances

White tall guys with a good sense of style and a good body have the best chance as the Mexican girls love to hang out with Caucasians. Don’t be disheartened if you are not white and tall, the girls are known to be nice to everyone and it depends on your game whether you get the girl or not. Money might not be an important factor but since most of the Mexican girls earn themselves, they expect the guy to make similar money.

If you are wealthy, then its always a good thing. Having a nice accommodation close to the happening places is a good thing as it increases your chances of hooking up. Dating culture is pretty sorted out in Mexico, if the girl is into you, she wouldn't hesitate on having sex the first night, but the girls like to tease and test a man by playing games to sometimes avoid physical intimacy. 

Risks while Gaming

If you stay in and around the major cities, you wouldn't be encountering any cock blockers or aggressive behavior. The Mexican families are very open and treat everyone with love. Always make sure you are not forcefully making a girl come with you or aggressively pursuing her to not put yourself into a position where the locals are angry with you. 

How to Get Laid as Soon as Possible

If you are in a hurry or feel like putting no work and getting laid, money is probably the best thing you can use to get laid the fastest. There will be girls who will be looking for rich guys and some good time. Other than that, nighttime is another option to find single girls and ask them out, but that still is a time-consuming process. 

Gold Diggers and Sugar Babies

The Sugar Baby scene in Mexico is still quite new but there are a lot of beautiful young girls looking for a Sugar Daddy. The best and safest way to hook up with a Sugar Baby is online. At SecretBenefits.com there is a wide selection of nice girls who are looking for an older guy to take care of them. These babes are easy to approach and you can settle everything before meeting up.

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Swinging and Naturism

 If you like Swingers life, Mexico is the perfect place to be. You can find places that have exclusive swingers clubs to bring some spice into your mundane life. Here are the three top swingers club: 

  • Diamond Swinger Club - Mexico City 
  • Casa Swinger - Mexico City 
  • Bar Luxor - Guadalajara

The amazing country with an expansive coastline also offers plenty of option to get rid of your clothes and get some tan. There are popular nudist beaches in the country, but it is advised to stay near the popular cities. Although most of the resorts are couples-only, there are “free” beaches, as it is called by the locals, that are open to all. Here’s a list of clothing optional nudist beaches in Mexico in different cities and regions:

  • The Pacific Coast
  • Baja California
  • Jalisco
  • Zipolite
  • The Riviera Maya
  • Xcalak
  • Tulum
  • Playa del Carmen
  • Puerto Morelos

Costs of Living

Mexico isn’t an expensive country if you compare it with similar nations. The Mexican currency is Mexican Peso, which has the same symbol as a dollar and translates to 16-18 MXN per USD. While dollars are widely accepted, it’s recommended to get local currency as the exchange rates are nominal. Your daily budget should be $30 - $50, and this should cover everything from food to living. But if you are a lavish traveler, then the sky is the only limit.

There are plenty of options to spend money in Mexico only if you are willing to spend money. The cost of living entirely depends on your choice of the place; a hostel cost you around $4 - $10 per night whereas a middle range hotel will cost you $100 - $200 per night. A safer and economical option is to look for guest houses or rather go for Airbnb as they are cheaper as compared to hotels. Food options are unlimited in Mexico and don’t cost much to fill an empty stomach.

You can have a good meal with seafood or wholesome vegetables for $1 - $5. Alcohol is decently priced, and you can grab a bottle from the grocery for $1 - $3. Mexico provides both the options of a budget trip as well as a lavish all-inclusive trip; you have to plan your travel as per your budget and enjoy the most. 

CostsDay Single traveler’s budget per day: US$30 - $50

If you are not traveling in a group and only have yourself to take care of, your daily budget should be around $30 - $50, which includes living, food, travel, etc. There are several ways you can cut down on your expenses, and the most effective one is to spend less on food and have it from common and local joints. 

CostsAccommodation Accommodation per night: US$10 - $30

Accommodation per night is dependent on which city you are planning to stay in and what type of accommodation you prefer. If you are looking for hostels, then you will get shared and private accommodations from $4 - $10 per night. Hotels are costly, and you will be charged $100 - $200 for a mid-range hotel room per night. Airbnb is available and will cost you $30 - $50 per night for a decent accommodation. 

CostsBeerBottle Beer in a grocery shop: US$X01 - $04

You can get pretty much all-international brands at most shopping marts, but the prices may vary from state to state. On average, a domestic beer bottle costs around $1 in the market and a foreign beer costs around $2 - $3.

CostsBeerBar Beer in a bar or restaurant: US$02 - $06

Foreign beers can have different costs in different states due to the different tax policies but on an average local beer costs around $2 - $3 in a bar and foreign $3 - $5 in the bar. 

CostsMeal Meal in a restaurant: US$05 - $10

Restaurants offer a variety of dishes, from fresh seafood to freshly picked vegetables. A meal in a mid-range restaurant will cost you $5 - $10. 

Accommodation

There are many options to go for when you are planning your accommodation. From hostels, 3-5 star hotels, Airbnb and guesthouses, Mexico offers you plenty of options to stay. Depending on your budget you can choose an accommodation option. The cheapest is the sharing options in a hostel where you will be sharing a space with 4-6 individuals. It's advised to stay close to the center of the city, as Mexico is known for its Gang and Cartel activities. Airbnb is another great options if you are looking to meet fellow travelers, and if you are lucky, you might get a girl as your partner. Having a place close to nightclubs and bars is always an advantage. 

How to Get There and Move Around

Mexico isn’t a difficult place to travel around as it offers a range of transportation options. There are budget airlines, public buses, rental cars, Uber, minibusses, etc. Most of the options are cost-effective, but sometimes rental taxis can charge you extra if they think you are a foreigner and don’t know much about the area. Most states are well connected and transportation is available almost all the time. 

By air:

Mexico is well connected via the air route and has international flights from different regions of the world. Most of the cities have small airports connecting them via the air route. The low-cost revolution made the fares cheap during the first decade of the 2000s, and the prices have only gone up marginally since then. If you are planning to fly your way into Mexico, the chances are that you might have a connecting flight that makes you land in the USA first and then Mexico. Direct flights are also available, but for Asian countries, connecting flights are cheaper options. 

By bus:

High-speed intercity bus services are available, and the buses use toll roads to make your journey even more comfortable. The toll charges are already added to your ticket. The buses have washrooms and will generally show movies during your journey. They are comfortable for long journeys and are readily available. 

By car:

The legal driving age in Mexico is 18 without adult supervision, and it is fun to drive around Mexico as the toll roads are well maintained. Although you might have to pay relatively high, the quality of the roads will be worth it. For traveling within a city and short distances, rental cars such as Uber is advised as understanding the roads, and navigating can sometimes be a difficult task. Especially after dark. 

By train:

Trains were phased out in the mid-20th century in Mexico like most countries in America, and so there are no train options for intercity travel although you can reach Mexico via The San Diego Trolley which operates via downtown San Diego to California-Baja California border. 

By boat:

There are only two ways you can enter Mexico via boat, it’s either by crossing the border from Guatemala or by arriving at the USA and then crossing the border. Cruise ships are readily available for the United States and it is always a fun ride if you are opting for a good cruise company. 

Visas:

The Visa to Mexico for most of the countries is free for 30-180 days. The free visa is offered to all European Union nations, plus Australia, Canada, Chile, Colombia, Singapore, Switzerland, the United States, etc. To see the full list of countries, please visit the official site of Mexican Ministry of Foreign Affairs. For others, a visa must be obtained before the travel by applying to Mexican consulate. For further details, please visit your nearest Mexican Embassy.  

Digital Nomads and Remote Work

Mexico offers a lot of the comforts digital nomads are looking for when it comes to working remotely. The beaches and mountains seem like the ultimate fantasy, and the friendliness of locals also make it possible to convert it into digital nomad heaven. The affordability, reliable internet, good weather put Mexico on a high pedestrian. Although it may not be the cheapest of the countries to live in, and might not be as popular as Thailand and Indonesia, it’s more affordable than the European and American countries offering the same. If you find Mexico to fit in your budget, it’s a great option for a digital nomad. Here are a few cities that boast of everything you need as a digital nomad:

  • Mexico City
  • Puebla
  • Guadalajara
  • Guanajuato

Internet and Mobile Operators

In Mexico, three telecom service providers rule the market. Telcel is the market leader, and the network, and internet speed is decent throughout all the states. You can find ready to use sim cards at most of the places. AT&T sim cards are free whereas others you have to pay for. The data plans start from roughly $5 and can last you 2-3 weeks. The main three operators are:

  • Telcel
  • AT&T
  • Movistar 

Gambling and Casinos

Mexico has mixed and unclear rules when it comes to gambling. Unlike most Latin American countries, gambling isn’t entirely legal in Mexico. The influence of catholic church and politics keeps gambling from becoming fully legal. Instead of all that, you can enjoy betting on horse racing, bullfighting, lottery, scratch-off cards, etc. Casino style games such as blackjack and roulette can also be found in some states. Here are some of the famous casinos in Mexico:

  • Casino Life - Mexico City 
  • Dubai Palace Casino - Cancún, Quintana Roo
  • Casino Life Vallarta - Puerto Vallarta, Jalisco
  • Casino Caliente - Cabo San Lucas, Baja California Sur

Weed and Drugs

Mexico has had a long and complicated relationship with weed and drugs throughout its history. There have been several law changes related to Cannabis in Mexico, and the latest law allows an adult to use cannabis for recreational uses, and a person can possess up to 5 grams of weed without getting into any kind of trouble. One thing to keep in mind is that the state laws are different, so make sure you are not crossing the limit, or you might have to pay a hefty price for even a small quantity of weed. Local guys better understand the market, so being friends with locals will help you otherwise you will end up paying double of the original price. 

Other synthetic drugs are strictly illegal in Mexico, and possession of the same can land you in serious trouble. 

Health, Fitness, Gyms and Massage

Fitness has been a recent phenomenon in Mexico, and the population is starting to get aware of the benefits of a fit body. There have always existed parks and playgrounds in Mexico, and the vast coastline also means there's plenty of natural options to workout. The recent gymming revolution has also reached Mexico, and you can find various gyms as well as fitness studios around the country. Yoga came here pretty early and has stayed as an option for physical as well as mental well being. It is also not hard to find good massage parlors here that provide excellent services. 

STDs and HIV

STDs and HIV have been pretty well controlled in Mexico as compared to the rest of the developing nations. It’s very rare to encounter someone infected especially if you are not having intercourse with sex workers or drug abusers. No matter what, precaution is always better than cure. 

Stay Safe

In most of the cities, location is very important as security changes from place to place. Areas close to downtown (centro) are safer to walk at night, especially on the "Plaza", "Zócalo" or "Jardín" (main square) and areas nearby. Stay in populated areas, avoid poor neighborhoods, especially at night, and don't walk there at any time if you are alone. Vicious beatings have been reported at resorts by people who have travelled alone, so stay alert for any suspicious-looking individual. If you wish to visit one of the slums, you should only go as part of a guided tour with a reputable guide or tour company.

Mexico has been long known for drug cartels and gangs. If you are visiting small towns and borders that fall under Mexican cartel area, try and avoid traveling alone especially after sunset. If you are in the major cities too, going out in the dark on deserted roads can be very dangerous. Call a cab and wait till its there to pick you up.  

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